Wednesday, March 13, 2019

Do You See What I Hear?



[Jesus] returned from the region of Tyre, and went by way of Sidon towards the Sea of Galilee, in the region of the Decapolis. 32They brought to him a deaf man who had an impediment in his speech; and they begged him to lay his hand on him. 33He took him aside in private, away from the crowd, and put his fingers into his ears, and he spat and touched his tongue. 34Then looking up to heaven, he sighed and said to him, “Ephphatha,” that is, “Be opened.” 35And immediately his ears were opened, his tongue was released, and he spoke plainly. 36Then Jesus ordered them to tell no one; but the more he ordered them, the more zealously they proclaimed it. 37They were astounded beyond measure, saying, “He has done everything well; he even makes the deaf to hear and the mute to speak.” 


Breaking News ... "Nazarene Spits, Deaf Man Hears."

Jesus wasn't looking for tabloid headlines but there it was. It wasn’t the first time, nor the last, that he suggests that people not tell anyone what he has just done which had to be hard for the people that brought the man to be healed, but how incredibly difficult it must have been for the man himself. Suddenly this man could hear and his speech impairment was gone. How could he not tell anyone about it?  How could he possibly remain silent when he was finally able to speak clearly for the first time in his life?

There is a temptation to assume that this secrecy component of Mark's Gospel was some kind of marketing tool for Jesus—a psychological ploy that would force people to talk it up. Pan a film, people will line up for tickets. Ban a book, it becomes a best seller. Order them not to tell, they'll tell the world.

In fact, this existence of this story makes it clear that once Jesus told them not to spread the word, that's exactly what everyone did. Yet despite the temptation, I think there was more to it than publicity. Jesus feared that human nature would do exactly what the tabloids count on to sell their papers, he knew that his healing would cause a sensation and he was certain that people would read only the headlines without getting the whole story. Nothing could be worse than having the good news about God's reign ­reduced to head­lines.

Good news—the reign of God has come near. Sometimes with Jesus that was headline material:  "Demons Cast Out"; "Lepers Cleansed"; "Para­lyzed Man Walks" ("Paralyzed Man … Forgiven" doesn't quite do it, right? Not enough attraction in that to sell the story). There were many miracle healings and they were newsworthy. 

Most of the "God’s reign" stuff, the less than glamorous stuff, the ordinary and mundane stuff, was not front page materi­al. But this tabloid headline was hot off the Jerusalem Press wire service from the region of the Ten Cities (The Decapolis): "Nazarene Spits, Deaf Man Hears."  We don't usually pay attention to the details of the story—don't want to get confused by the facts, right? But by ignoring the details, we may have missed the message. 

In private, away from the crowd, Jesus physically touched a man and in a very tangible way brought God near. For this particu­lar individual, God’s reign coming near meant having a stranger's fingers poked in his ears, having the strang­er spit, and having that poking, spitting, stranger touch his tongue, none of which seems like a very pleasant sensory experi­ence. The kin-dom of God comes near this man and he was touched by it, figura­tively and quite literal­ly.

So carefully has this story been handed down through the ages that an Aramaic word echoes from our reading even today. Ephphatha. Jesus and his disci­ples probably spoke and taught in Greek, a universal lan­guage of trade, com­merce and academy but their lan­guage of origin was Hebrew or a dialect of it called Aramaic, which they would have used in synagogue and in other private matters. In only three places in Christian scripture does Jesus’ use of Aramaic words survive in the original tongue, and this is one.[1] My suspicion is that maintaining this word in Aramaic suggests that this is a very significant piece of memory for the earliest Jesus followers and it became a key piece of their early scripture.

Ephphat­ha. 

It's not that the word has any sort of magical mystical value on its own because it’s use is more than just the specific, spoken word. What is critical to the story is the way that it is placed into context, the way in which it is gram­matically used, the way in which it rolls off the tongue. It was said with a different kind of empha­sis. It wasn't just spoken, it was "sighed.” [στενάζω / sten-ad'-zo / a sigh, to groan].

Sighed to heaven [οὐρανός / oo-ran-os' / the vaulted expanse of the sky with all things visible in it; the universe, the world], a groan from earth to the great expanse above, an emotional plea between child and parent. It is what John Bunyun had in mind when he penned that "the best prayers have often more groans than words." It is a prayer groaned for this particular person and a prayer groaned for all of humanity as well. Ephphatha— "be opened."  In groaning this prayer for us, Jesus has chal­lenged each of us in the name of his God.

Ephph­atha—"be opened."

It wasn't just any ordinary groan.  It wasn't like the groan of a husband that discovered that his wife has tickets to the ballet for Sunday afternoon when his favorite is to play in this year’s Super Bowl. No, it wasn't that kind of "Nooo! Ah, do I hafta?" groan. Perhaps it was more like the groaning prayer of Job as his life came crumbling down around him.  "Let the day perish in which I was born, and the night that said 'A man-child is conc­eiv­ed'. Let that night be darkness! ... Why did I not die at birth, come forth from the womb and expire?" [Job 3:3] Maybe like the imagined cry of Isaac at the sudden realization that his father, Abraham, was about to cut his throat at the altar and that he was to be the day's burnt offering. [Genesis 22] A plea for mercy and compassion, a groan from earth to heaven, from child to God. Or perhaps like the groan of the Psalmist, "O Lord, why do you cast me off?  Why do you hide your face from me?"  [Psalm 88]  Or forever the groan of Israel, from Pharaoh's Egypt to Hitler's Death Camps, "How long, O Lord, how long?".

But still, that's not quite it.

Maybe it’s like the guttural groan of a mom in a war-torn village who watches as her child is gunned down by soldiers or like the groan of an American dad who has just learned that his child was gunned down on the streets of his neighborhood. The groaning prayer of Jesus for us is deeper than we might possibly ever know yet he continues to cry out for us "with sighs too deep for words. [Romans 8:26]  

Despite all of that—the healing, the touching, the word, the groan—we still gravitate toward just the headline. "Naz­arene Spits, Deaf Man Hears.”   But that is not the point of this story.  What's important is that the prayer that Jesus groans is as much for us as it is for the man in the headline and it calls us to task. We are challenged by this groaning prayer from a first century Mediterranean peasant turned rabbi.


I picked up my telephone and dialed the office number listed for my colleague, Peter, and as it rang I mentally prepared to speak with his wife, Jean. During his adult years, Peter had been steadily losing his capacity for hearing so I expected to speak with his wife who would relay my message to him since he wouldn't be able to hear me over the phone. 

The phone rang; it connected but there was no voice on the other end. I heard a beeping tone and a series of pings and twangs and rasps. My first thought was that there was a fax machine connected to the line. I said "Hello," but there was no response.  “Hello?”  I hung up and tried again. The same thing happened, a series of pings and twangs. I said “Hello?” again; a silent pause and then the tones again.

And then it occurred to me. I had called a TDD line, a telecommunication device for the deaf (TDD), a machine that allows you to see on a monitor the words spoken to you by the caller on the other end of the line. I hung up and called back on the other number listed as their home number. Jean answered the phone.

An awkward moment, and the more I thought about it, how frustrated I felt. I realized that I was the one with the disability, with the inability to communicate. A person who is deaf—someone whom society considers to be "disabled"—was quite willing and very able to communicate with me by telephone. I was the one unable to hear the message, I was the one unable—dis-abled—to do what was ordinary for someone else.

Jesus prayed for the man unable to hear—"be opened" and he was. Jesus prayed for me—"be opened"—and I wasn't.  I was very much closed off from one of God's children because of my own ignorance and inability to recognize different ways of communication. The reign of God had come near me—a miracle had occurred—a non-hearing friend could have "heard" what I said and he could have spoken back to me. In the dialing of a telephone, in an ordinary event, God had come near me but I didn't hear.


The man in the gospel story didn't hear the prayer either. Remember, he couldn't physically hear so when Jesus groaned his prayer Ephphatha, the man never heard it. All he knew was the outcome. He saw Jesus' lips move and he watched Jesus spit, with his own tongue he tasted the dirt on Jesus' fingers, he felt the healing man poke at his ears, he experienced God through a miracle of sensation, but he never heard it happen. The lips moved, no prayer was heard. Is it possible that we don't have to "hear" the prayer to experience God? Is it possible that God’s kin-dom coming near is the point of the challenge to "be opened"?

What that might mean for us is remarkable. It could mean that God’s reign comes near us in very mundane, physical, tangible ways as well. The reign of God coming near us might mean having to “be opened” to things like the sweat and blood and groaning that accompanies the coming of new life into the world. It might mean having to cradle in your arms a friend addicted to drugs and having the tears of that friend mingle with your tears as she screams in pain and fear. The challenging prayer “be opened” might mean being opened enough to march with your LGBTQ siblings and endure the spit cast in your direction from the crowds along the way. 

The kin-dom of God might just mean that your neighbors despise and ignore you because you are physically and intellectually different than they are. It might mean that to be healed you have to experience the spit and dirt and offensive touching that the man in the gospel story had to endure. The coming of God into your life does not mean that you have to hear the groaning prayer, ephphatha, but it does mean that you have to be touched by it and live it.


When I was in high school, the chorus would always perform at our annual winter concert.  There was one piece that was always saved until the end when chorus alumni were invited to come out of the audience and sing in the ensemble. "Do You Hear What I Hear?" is the title of the song. "Said the night wind to the little lamb, do you hear what I hear?" followed by the next verse, "Said the little lamb to the shepherd boy, do you see what I see?"

Every year, I would pray mischievously for someone to get confused and sing "Do you see what I hear?" or "Do you hear what I see?".  Even these many years later, strolling through the mall at Christmas, I wait to hear the next verse blaring over the speakers "Do you see what I hear?". 

That's what happened to me the day that I called my friend. "Do you see what I hear?"  No, Peter couldn't see what I was saying. "Do you hear what I see?" I could hear what he said but it made no sense, just pings and beeps. It would have helped if I had been able to see what he said, but I couldn't. I was not open to the coming of God into that moment.
Jesus challenged me at that very moment, Jesus groaned his prayer into my life. Ephphatha!  Did the prayer fail, did it fall on deaf ears? Did I fail to meet the challenge? At first glance, one might say yes. "The prayer failed and Jim didn't live up to the challenge." But on second thought, I have realized that my life was suddenly opened to a better way of communicating. I now know that I can call my friend Peter or anyone else using a TDD which connects us by use of a telephone operator who has the job of relaying messages between hearing persons and those using assistive devices.

"Do you see what I hear?" is the primary point of this gospel story and also the overarching theme of God's presence in this world. Jesus told the man to tell no one what had happened after he had been healed. That’s all well and good, but imagine him walking up to a neighbor saying clearly for the first time, "Do you see what I hear?  Can you see that I hear?!" He didn't have to explain how it happened, it just happened, and suddenly those with whom he came in contact experienced the kin-dom come near.

Jesus prayed for him "be opened." He was—his ears, yes; his tongue, yes; but most importantly, his life. People would treat him differently now, not simply because he could speak, but because he had suddenly been opened to the kin-dom of God which had been there all along. If God’s reign coming near us means that we will be touched in similar tangible ways, then we can each expect to be treated differently once we accept the challenge and respond to the prayer groaned on our behalf. Once opened, we can never be the same again because once opened, the kin-dom of God has come upon us and once that is real we will not be able to walk away keeping the secret. Others may see the headline, but we'll know the details of the story.

"Be opened" Jesus groans toward heaven.  "Be opened"—Ephphatha. If we are opened—our ears, eyes, tongue, our lives—then we can see the kin-dom of God and we can feel how close it really is, and we can hear how it speaks to us. We can, indeed, begin to recognize just how very near it is and finally we can begin to live it in very mundane and tangible ways.

Ephphatha, children of God, "be opened."

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James F. McIntire
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[1] The other two Aramaic phrases are in Mark 5:41 "[Jesus] took [Jairus' daughter] by the hand and said to her, 'Talitha cum,' which maena, 'Litttle girl, get up!'" and in Mark 15:34  as Jesus is on the cross "At three o'clock Jesus cried out with a loud voice, 'Eloi, Eloi, lema sabachtani' which means, 'My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?'"